JW's are accustomed to approaching perfect strangers and asking them questions and talking about personal topics and they've been taught how to have the upper hand when doing so. Thankfully most of them know when and when not to however. As with anything, there'll be the occasional clod who won't know when to turn it off and now with facebook etc. some people think it's perfectly normal to make every detail of their lives public.
When the questions first become inappropriate one can answer them jokingly with a laugh in your voice because touchy subjects are often best handled with a wink and a smile or even pure silliness rather than getting up on ones high horse. Either way, don't budge because for some people , being pushy works for them and giving them the answers they want validates their methods and makes them feel as if they have power over you.
Saying something jokingly can often send the message that you like them but they can't just ask you any old question.
a) You must have eaten a bowl of question marks for breakfast this morning (ha ha)
b) Sounds like you're writing a book about me? You probably should leave that chapter out. (ha ha)
c) Momma' told me not to talk about things like that with strangers. (ha ha)
Hopefully they'll get the hint that you're finished providing them with information, if not you can step it up a notch yet still use humor.
How much does a job like yours pay?
a) (smiling) Really??? You want to know how much money I make...your kidding right??
b) (smile and wink) Even my closest friends would think twice before asking me something like that.
c) That's classified information, I could tell you but then I'd have to kill you. (wink wink)
d) (smiling, head tilted, arms folded) So tell me....I'm curious...why would you possibly need to know that ?
If all else fails, try and emergency change of subject.
How much does your job pay?
Not enough for someone as magnificent as myself (ha ha)....Can you believe how bad traffic has been lately?? My commute is a nightmare !